I know you're having a hard time and tired and sad from getting griefed,
So since it's survival you should have all of your buildings claimed otherwise it won't be considered griefing
"Survival server: You must protect your buildings, if not. we will NOT see it as griefing!"
I know you're sad about your griefed base but please focus next time and make sure you claim your building so it can't get griefed again
If you have other questions or concerns, please let us know!